Size Really Matter?
Some say yes, some say no. It is a matter of continuing
controversy. Men and women argue this point, and magazines
have frequent articles on this subject.
Sometimes size simply does matter, however. Gina from
Los Angeles has this to say:
"I have been dating a man who I think is wonderful.
We have so much in common, and everything is great. The
problem is that when we have intercourse, I can't feel
his penis inside of me. There is also no contact with
my clitoris. It doesn't matter how long he goes, I can't
feel his cock.
With other partners, I can reach orgasm within a couple
of minutes, but he is so small, I just can't. I feel embarrassed
going on about specifics, but his penis is about 4 1/2
inches long and very thin. I try to tell myself that it
doesn't matter, but the fact is that I deserve to have
good sex and to have orgasms.
Not only can I not come, but I am worried that he can't
feel much either, which makes me feel like less of a woman
with him. I don't know what other women do in this situation,
but I'm confused and upset. This guy and I get along so
well, and everything is so great, but the sex is so unsatisfying.
What can I do?"
There are a few things they can try, but unfortunately
first she has to be able to tell him what the problem
is - and that is bound to be uncomfortable, and to put
a strain on their relationship. Can you imagine how difficult
it would be for a woman to tell a man she cares about
that she can't feel his penis during sex?
After they have talked about the problem, they can talk
about solutions so that Gina receives the sexual stimulation
she needs to feel good about their physical relationship.
There are penile extenders available at most sex toy shops,
or they can be bought online. There are small vibrators
designed to stimulate the clitoris during intercourse
or at other times. Her boyfriend can use a vibrator and
masturbate or perform oral sex before or after intercourse.
Also there are penis enlargement techniques and programs.
First off, there is surgery, but that is expensive and
intrusive. Most men would not willingly undergo surgery,
nor should a woman ask it. Then there are mechanical enlargement
techniques such as penis pumps and stretching rings. These
can have some effect, but can also weaken and tear the
delicate tissue of the penis. Some doubt that these pumps
can be effective, and there are differing opinions as
to whether such mechanical techniques work.
There are also exercises like the jelq and some special
kinds of stretching. These exercises can have some effect,
but require both knowledge and regular effort. Lastly
there are penis pills, which on their own usually have
a great effect and can increase the size of the penis.
It all depends on what Penis pills you choose as some
are simply a rip off.
Obviously in some situations, size can make a difference,
not only in terms of the quality of sex, but also as far
as the comfort involved in the relationship.
Average Penis Size
Average Penis Size
Most research finds that the average range of penis size
falls between 5.5 to 6.4 inches in erect length and 4.7
to 5.2 inches in girth. But who wants to be average? Most
men would love an extra inch or two.
When it comes to penises, many cultures both ancient
and modern - have considered bigger to be better. Unsurprisingly,
this obsession about penis sizes has set off a dynamic
and lucrative industry solely devoted to penis enlargement.
There is a wide range of penis enlargement methods and
procedures that you can opt for, ranging from the ridiculous
to the simply reprehensible. You must be wary of businesses
hawking relatively untested and unsafe penis enlargement
methods and programs.